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I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and I wanted to share something with you.

The quality of your life comes down to one thing most people never think about: the quality of your questions.

Not your goals. Not your habits. Your questions. The ones you ask yourself all day, on repeat, most of them without even realizing it.

Here’s a quick thought experiment.

You want something: A new house, a business, whatever. And your first thought is: “I can’t afford that.”

That’s a statement. Your brain hears it, accepts it, and moves on. The door is closed.

Now try: “How CAN I afford it?”

Feel the shift? Your brain opens up. It starts scanning. Opportunities. Ideas. Connections. You gave it a job and it went to work.

Same thing with time. “I don’t have time to work out” is a dead end. “How can I make time to work out?” and suddenly your brain is solving.

This works for everything.

Your subconscious is a search engine

Here’s proof: Ever tried to remember someone’s name? An actor, a guy from a party, whatever. You can’t get it. You try and try and eventually give up.

Then 2 hours later... in the shower, driving, doing dishes... BOOM. The name appears out of nowhere.

You gave your subconscious a question. It ran the search in the background. And it delivered when you stopped forcing it.

You can use this on purpose.

Ask your subconscious: “How do I BE the person who does the things that lead to having the result I want?”

BE first. Then DO. Then HAVE.

Most people try to DO their way into HAVING things. That’s backwards. Identity comes first. Then action. Then results.

Now weaponize it

Try asking yourself: “Why am I so healthy?”

You just gave your brain a task: Find evidence + build a case. And it will.
“I exercise every day. I eat clean. I take care of my body.”
Your brain reinforces the identity. All because you directed your focus.

Try these: - “Why am I so good at what I do?” - “Why am I so creative?” - “Why am I so lucky?”

Put any word in there. Your brain will find the proof.

The dark side

This works both ways. And most people are running the negative version without knowing it.

“Why am I always broke?” “Why do I always get sick?” “Why am I so unlucky?”

That word “always” locks you into an identity. You’re not just broke right now. You’re BEING broke. And when you’re being broke, you do broke things. And you have broke results.

Your brain delivered exactly what you asked for. You were just asking the wrong questions.

Your move

Start today. Ask yourself:

“Why am I so ___?” and fill in what you want to be true.

“How can I ___?” and watch the doors open.

“Who do I need to BE to have the life I want?”

Your brain will go to work immediately.

If you want to go deeper into this and find out how your subconscious has been programmed (and what’s actually running in the background), I put together a free assessment. Takes about 45 seconds. It’ll show you exactly where your patterns are helping you and where they’re holding you back.

​Take your Free Hypnosis Assessment Now​

Talk soon,
Jeff
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